Summer Holidays and Child Arrangements: What Happens if You Can’t Agree?

For many families, the school summer holidays are a time to relax, travel and spend quality time together. However, for separated parents, the longer break from school can also bring challenges when it comes to agreeing where children will spend their time and whether they can travel abroad.

Most parents can reach an agreement that works for everyone. But if discussions become difficult, understanding your legal position can help you make informed decisions while keeping your child’s best interests at the centre of every conversation.

Planning Makes All the Difference

Unlike term time, the summer holidays often involve family holidays, visits to relatives and childcare arrangements that fall outside the usual routine. It’s therefore sensible to start discussing plans well in advance.

Parents should aim to:

• agree dates as early as possible

• communicate clearly and respectfully

• consider the child’s wishes where appropriate, depending on their age and maturity

• think about existing commitments, such as clubs, family events or holidays.

Having plans agreed in writing, even by email or text message, can also help avoid misunderstandings later on.

Can One Parent Take a Child on Holiday?

This is one of the most common questions family solicitors receive during the summer months.

The answer depends on the circumstances.

If there is a Child Arrangements Order stating that the child lives with one parent, that parent can usually take the child abroad for up to 28 days without needing the other parent’s permission, unless the court order says otherwise.

In other situations, or where there is no Child Arrangements Order, consent from everyone with parental responsibility is generally required before taking a child outside England and Wales.

Travelling without the appropriate consent could have serious legal consequences, so it is always advisable to seek advice if you are unsure.

What Happens if the Other Parent Doesn’t Agree?

Disagreements do not necessarily mean a holiday cannot go ahead.

It is often helpful to understand why the other parent has concerns. Sometimes providing more information about travel plans, accommodation or contact arrangements while you are away can resolve the issue.

Where communication has broken down, mediation may help parents reach an agreement without the need for court proceedings.

If agreement still cannot be reached and travel is imminent, it may be necessary to apply to the court for permission. Seeking legal advice early gives you the best opportunity to resolve matters before departure dates become an issue.

Travelling Abroad After Separation

If you are travelling overseas with your child, it is sensible to carry documents that demonstrate you have permission to travel if requested.

These may include:

• written consent from the other parent

• a copy of the child’s birth certificate

• details of any Child Arrangements Order

• your travel itinerary

Some airlines and border authorities may ask for evidence that you have the necessary permission.

Keeping the Focus on Your Child

While disagreements can be frustrating, keeping the focus on your child’s welfare is always the best approach.

Children generally benefit when parents can communicate respectfully and work together to make arrangements that allow them to enjoy time with both sides of their family during the holidays.

We’re Here to Help

If you’re experiencing difficulties agreeing child arrangements during the school holidays or need advice about travelling abroad with your child after separation, francis george solicitor-advocate can provide clear, practical legal guidance tailored to your circumstances.

Whether you need advice on parental responsibility, Child Arrangements Orders or resolving disputes constructively, we’re here to help you understand your options and move forward with confidence.

If you would like to discuss your situation, please contact francis george solicitor-advocate to arrange a confidential consultation.